Haaa! SO TRU

I was online looking at something to laugh at (cuz I wanted to get my daily dosage for the new year) and saw this video. I was crackin up. It might be a little vulgar for the kids tho.

I'm rating it PG 13.

Link to video (mobile): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhWWMeF5qhQ
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"The 7 Golden Rules"

Lately, I've been trying to find more things to keep my mind grounded. The week I got back from China, one of my coworkers sparked a conversation about the government and certain information that was exposed that people still choose not to believe. To make a long story short, it got me irritated that we as a people choose not to USE OUR MINDS. It's our most valuable asset in life and a lot of us choose not to use it.

Take some time to really notice the things you dwell on. Some of the stuff is toxic, huh? I came across this video called "The 7 Golden Rules" by Wayne Dyer. He's a pretty good speaker. In this lecture, he teaches you how to let go of your ego by the power of intention. I think its your ego that really causes you to dwell on unnecessary things anyway.

This all aligns nicely because Islam teaches to have pure intentions. I know some of you may be confused by that statement because of what Islam is perceived to be by the media, but you can't believe everything you see on TV folks :)

I listened to these "7 Golden Rules" about 6 times already, today lol... Its valuable info.

1. Stop being offended - That which offends you, weakens you.
2. Let go of your need to win - There are no losers in a world where we all share the same energy source.
3.  Let go of your need to be right - Do you want to be right or happy?
4. Let go of your need to feel superior - When you project feelings of superiority, its what you get back.
5. Let go of your need to have more - Let go of your ego's need to have more. Create and let go.
6. Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements- The less you need to take credit, the more you're free to achieve.
7. Let go of your reputation- your reputation is not located in you. It resides in the minds of others, therefore, you have no control over it.

     

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My thoughts going into 2011

I feel like I broke out of my shell some more, this year, and developed a higher level of confidence and awareness. I had a great feeling about 2010 before it started, but I definitely didn't expect to experience all of the things I did this year. I'm grateful for it, alhamdulillah.

I had a chance to go to LA, Vegas, Miami, and China for the first time. I love to travel so you know I was suped lol. I had the opportunity to gain a better understanding of business in all aspects and also picked up some more web/blogging skills (holla lol).

Its funny because I watched "The Secret" about 3 times during the end of Dec/09 and transitioned into the new year with such a great attitude. My mind was clear and my heart was filled with gratitude. With the help of a few books that I read this year, I was able to heighten my sense of awareness and understand certain principles like the power of thought. Each one of us has the power to change our attitudes at any second; and when you change your attitude, often times, you can change the outcome of your situation, as well.

Too many times, we catch ourselves dwelling over unnecessary things.... almost to the point where we have these "thought attacks" that ruin our days and may even cause anxiety. When you realize that its really you that's making the situation so bad in your mind, you can gain control of this action and cut the habit. Just try it. It's easier than you think if you really just try..

My intention is to go into this new year with the same kind of attitude but with an even greater sense of acceptance for things I can't change, gratitude for the things I have, and motivation to learn more. Oh yeah... and I decided to get in a good a laugh everyday. Why not, right? Laughter heals.

I'm also still on my journey to becoming more educated in Islam, so there may be some changes, inshAllah. I was listening to some of Lauryn Hill's music and the line "how quickly we forget... that nothing is for certain" stood out to me. As harsh as the reality may seem, its true. We only have but so much control over life. Remember God, be truthful, and do good deeds. Your reward will come, inshAllah (God Willing).

With all that being said, I'm SO excited for the new year. I've learned a lot in the past few months that I want to implement. Stay tuned folks! It's about to go DOWN (kevin hart voice)

I hope everyone has a safe and prosperous new year :)

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Girlpez Magazine Interview with Fashion Stylist, Kanayo Ebi

Yayy... Check out my friend, Kanayo! I'm sure you've seen some photos of her on my blog in the past. She was the subject of my first Alter Ego photoshoot (below, in case you forgot :) lol)

This interview was featured on Girlpez.com. Shout out to Savannah Britt! She's doin her thing at 16 yrs old. Follow her on twitter: @Savlovesyou

Here's the alter-ego photo, shot by yours truly lol :)

Kanayo Ebi : @Kachmeifyoucan

"Don't Sweat The Small Stuff... And It's All Small Stuff" (GOOGLE BOOK)

Loooook what I found! :) ... so here's my gift to you all. It's a google book so you can read this book that I recommended last week, "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff... And Its All Small Stuff", by Richard Carlson. 

Seriously... its a really good read. Even if you want to scroll down to a chapter that sounds interesting, just read it. They're short chapters.

Or you can order the book from Amazon here (Sarah lol): Click here

100 Styles and Running Lookbook

I love seeing my friends do big things. 2011 is the year of the entrepreneurs people! Check out 100 Styles and Running new lookbook. More stuff on the site: 100styles.com

 (Click on the images to zoom in)

Follow the 100sr team on twitter!

@100styles

@Mr_Jarrell

The Flow Of Life: 5 Life Traits To Control Your Coincidences

I got this off of my friend, Blogzworth's site... check it out: Blogzworth.com

Have you ever had an encounter that turned into a lifetime of friendship? Or how about think of a loved one to instantly have the phone ring with your mother on the other end just wanting to hear your voice? These are not coincidences; they’re thoughts attached to emotions which affect everything you do. Many of us consistently miss out on adventures and life changing experiences, quickly dismissing these instances as mere coincidences. Living in the life of ‘Flow’ is much more an art-form than any inattentive notion  The Power Of Flow, by Charlene Belitz & Meg Lundstrom, reveals practical ways to transform your life with meaningful coincidences. They accredit the Power of Flow to distinct attributes or traits that most of us already possess. In this article, I’ve highlighted a few of these traits so that you may bring in your 2011 with a heightened sense of awareness.

Honesty

Become brutally honest with yourself and others, no matter how uncomfortable it makes you feel. We pursue the truth because we know it will set us free. When we don’t have to lie, we don’t have to think. Real honesty, or the true source of approval comes from within. First be true to yourself. Authenticity invites trust, and trust opens doors.

Passion

Be passionate about life, love, and the pursuit of happiness. Flow is powered by our passions. When we’re passionate we let go of self-protective caution and immerse ourselves in the moment. By indulging in the things about which we are passionate, whether a job, a relationship, or an idea, we begin to notice changes in our lives, and a life of flow begins.

Immediacy

We must not hang onto thoughts of the past; nor should we dwell on trying to control how things will turn out. Instead, try focusing your full attention on each and every interaction. Become fully engaged in everything you do. This will not only make it easier to notice meaningful coincidences coming our way, but it will also make life exponentially more exciting.

Positivity

When we think positively, we seek value in every opportunity. We are not fault-finders, but fact-finders even in the worst of situations. When we believe everything happens for a reason, the fault doesn’t matter.  Be aware of bad situations and negative thoughts, but don’t dwell on them. Avert your attention to what must change for the better of the situation. Understand and learn from the people we meet rather than place fault or blame.

Trust

Trust might be the most important trait for the development of flow into your life. Trust allows us to move forward without the fear of uncertainty. When we trust, we are open to whatever is before us; this leaves infinite room for opportunity. Without haste or hesitation, we embrace the world, willing to risk everything, challenging life’s possibilities.

To read more about The Power Of Flow and the Nine Attributes that create power, Click Here to check out the book!

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WeWood Watches

WeWood Watches, "100% Wood". You can find these at Goliath in Harlem, NYC. 

Dean and Ravo - Walkin Around (Official Music Video)

Yessss.... Everyone check this video out!! Dean and Ravo's debut song. I love the sound they bring to the table and there's more to come.